I was just about to reply to your email, but as you've posted this, I'll say my small piece here.

While I would accept a reprimand from Ladycat I won't accept it from a 3rd party except now Darkhavens has gotten into the act.

I 'got into the act' as I am the moderator at bloodclaim. I hate seeing kerfuffles there and try whenever possible to nip them in the bud. Perhaps asking both of you to take the discussion to email would have been a better solution than just saying 'Please consider your opinion(s) to be voiced and move on to happier things. Thanks!, but my main aim was to a halt to the thread at BC, not to encourage you both to go butt heads elsewhere.

Thankfully, BC is a relatively kerfuffle-free zone, though that means I'm still unused to having to crack the mod-whip. I try to be polite and non-judgemental while keeping tempers from boiling over.