Thank you -- I understand what happened, I've been involved from the beginning, actually, since I was contacted when you made the initial post on bloodclaim. I have a response for your email, and the rest of this, but I want to make sure it's really clear in what I want to say before I send it, so could you hold off on making your post until you receive it and read it?

The short answer is, however: if this was merely a case of a single *sob* at a rec, we wouldn't be having this discussion. This is something that has been building for some time, between you and I, and I should've emailed you personally from the start. I am very sorry I did not, because I never meant to cause you grief either. But this is complicated, and I'd like to try and clear it up.

Thank you for contacting Sofy :)